I am someone who go all out to explain myself as much as I can, because I hate misunderstandings. This is my character. This is also what normal people will response in such situations.
How much time and effort the person spent in typing that comment/question is how much time I use to think about it.
"These keyboard-cyber-bullies-haters are wasting their time trying to get you to reply to their questions. If you do not reply, they will just keep asking."
One thing will lead to another, I might as well answer it straight to the point.
Disclaimer:
This post is not dedicated to anyone.It is a simple post to tell you how I want to feel and this is mini space for me to pour my feelings and thoughts.
=> If you are someone who know me (in school or outside) and you dislike me,dislike my personality, dislike how I behave or the manner I communicate to you:
1. You should step out of your hiding zone and boldly come forward to confront me. The Internet can effectively hide your real identity and make you go anonymous, but who will listen to a 'nobody' who tries to call me names or asking me reflect on myself?
2. If you are unhappy with me, why ain't you telling me personally face-to-face? What is stopping you? You are just torturing yourself by avoiding me.
3. I appreciate the fact that you are interested in me by asking me those questions and I will try my best to reply back.
I am cool with people who speak how they really feel. If you really hate me, by all means carry on hating.
Questions that I want to ask:
How will you feel when you are misunderstood and dumped by your 'friend'?
How will you feel if your 'friend' or classmates treats you transparent because they feel that you deserved to be treated in that manner?
How will you feel if you are excluded from team discussion as your opinions cannot be heard and you are treated transparent in the team?
Heartaches and silent breakdowns happened recently because of these cold war between my 'friend' and I.
I gave my best in a friendship and if it doesn't work, and when one walks of it first, leaving me behind. I take it as we are done.
Just don't come and stab me with your careless words because you are upset with the fact that you're torturing yourself by avoiding me and grumbling about how unfortunate you met me. I do not hate you and I forgiven you. God bless you
Proverbs 12:18
GOD’S WORD Translation (GW)
Careless words stab like a sword,
but the words of wise people bring healing.
